What is your purpose?
How many of us wonder what our purpose on this Earth is? How many of us just wander around without purpose, just doing life without focus, going through the motions without a clear destiny?
Last week at Sisterhood, things started to come together for me. I had been wandering around my life, not really focused, not living with purpose. I was hoping that things would change but I didn't have a clear plan or path to where I was going. It was like getting in your car and you know where you want to be but your GPS isn't working and your driving without a map, without a guidance system. That is pretty much a waste of time and gas, to go somewhere without purpose and a plan! Why would we live our lives like that? Life is more than working to pay bills, getting through the school year just to start a new one, getting from one event to another. We should have dreams, goals, plans, and purpose to guide us through life and to give life meaning.
The theme of Sisterhood Mornings this semester is called, Rhythms of Grace. We are talking about doing life with a rhythm and setting the pace with the things that matter the most, the things that help us to fulfill our purpose. Linda Riddle was the speaker last week and she talked about opportunity and purpose. Different opportunities come our way, doors open, things happen and we have to decide whether to take on those opportunities or to pass on them. If we don't know what our purpose in life is, how can we know what opportunities to take?
What are you most passionate about? What are the things that bring you joy? What are the things that make your heart soar? What brings fulfillment and contentment into your life?
Read this passage from Proverbs 31:16:
"She considers a new field before she buys or accepts it, (expanding prudently and not courting neglect or her present duties by assuming other duties); with her savings of time and strength, she plants fruitful vines in her vineyard."
The Proverbs 31 woman uses wisdom in her planning and opportunities. She takes the time to consider new opportunities before she agrees to them. She has to make sure her current responsibilities aren't going to be neglected by taking on this new thing. She has margin in her life and only takes on things that will be fruitful and further the fulfillment of her purpose.
My purpose in life is found in Proverbs 31 verses 8-9:
"Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves; ensure justice for those being crushed. Yes, speak up for the poor and helpless and see that they get justice." New Living Translation
My purpose is directly related to women and how women are objectified in society, treated as less than human and less than/not equal to men, and how those things affect how women perceive themselves.
My focus is to help women to attain a healthy mind, body, and soul with emphasis on the body. The most important things to me are healthy eating, positive body image, and combating objectification of women/children. I believe that in changing societies view of women and shining a light on how objectification degrades females, that will help to break the cycles of abuse in domestic situations, human trafficking, and the sex trade. If a woman, through taking care of herself produces a positive body image, she will be less likely to fall into the traps and snares set out to destroy her.
My goal is to bring God glory by being a godly woman that loves her body, the body that God gave me, to love the LORD with all my heart and with all my soul, and to champion women's strengths and successes. God created women to partner with men, not to be tread upon and used for men's pleasure. Together, men and women are meant to compliment each other's strengths in building family and community.
With a clear purpose and goal, I can now set a plan in motion to fulfill my purpose! Focusing on God and His plan for my life will help me to choose the opportunities that arise carefully and with godly wisdom.
"Good planning and hard work lead to prosperity, but hasty shortcuts lead to poverty" Proverbs 21:5